A few weeks ago I did a photo shoot in association with Bella Kinks and J. Black Productions called "Girls Rocking Natural". It was a lot of fun (plus my sister and I shared some laughs that day)! So, I just received the pics and I am in LOVE!!!!!!! So here are some of my favorite shots that J. Black edited for me. He did an awesome job! Click on his link above if you are in the DFW area. Enjoy!
Showing posts with label hair care. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hair care. Show all posts
Friday, July 13, 2012
My first photoshoot
A few weeks ago I did a photo shoot in association with Bella Kinks and J. Black Productions called "Girls Rocking Natural". It was a lot of fun (plus my sister and I shared some laughs that day)! So, I just received the pics and I am in LOVE!!!!!!! So here are some of my favorite shots that J. Black edited for me. He did an awesome job! Click on his link above if you are in the DFW area. Enjoy!
Labels:
events,
hair care,
hairstyles,
photoshoot,
twistout
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
Getting Past Dry Hair
Since I have been natural, I have noticed that a hot topic among in the natural hair community is moisture. As most of us naturals have come from a lifetime of having relaxers, moisture was never really an issue because the hair care market has a slew of products to moisture relaxed tresses. But, from the moment that we begin to transition or actually “big chop”, our hair is suddenly at war with an unforeseen enemy: dryness.
Causes of dryness can be caused by but aren’t limited to:
- Too much protein
- Not enough protein
- Your scalp’s sebum (natural oil) not being able to travel down the curly hair shaft
- Prescription meds or health issues
- Dehydration
- Harsh weather conditions (heat, cold, dry air, humidity)
- Chemical treatments (hair color, texturizers, etc.)
- Hard water
On the internet, there are so many articles, blogs and vlogs about combating dryness and I definitely researched all of that information and through trial and error, I came up with what works for me to keep my hair moisturized and thriving.
1.) Water
Sometimes when a have I period of time when I drink a lot of sodas and juices and very little water, I find that my face breaks out and I become dehydrated. That same dehydration goes for your hair! You must keep your body hydrated to create healthy hair from the inside-out. Drinking the suggested 8 glasses of water per day (plus a multivitamin) is a great way to boost hair health.
Not only is water good from the inside, but it is also the best moisturizer you can use on your hair! If you ever had a relaxer, you know that it was a cardinal sin to put water on your hair (except for your bi-weekly shampoo) and Heaven forbid if you broke a sweat!!! Well, our natural hair is the exact opposite. Your hair needs water! Whether you drench your hair in the shower or spritz it on your hair with a spray bottle you can almost never go wrong using water. Now for some hair textures water alone is not going to cut it, but it is a great starting place!
2.) Washing vs. Co-washing
When I first bc’d (big chopped) it was summertime, so, being in Texas, it was no big deal to wash my hair everyday when I showered, because it was so hot. Now, I am not talking about a typical wash with shampoo, but a Co-wash, or conditioner wash. Many people’s hair cannot deal with the way some shampoos dry out the hair. So, because I wore wash-n-gos everyday and I had a TWA, co-washing was ideal for me, because it cleaned out the products I had in my hair the day before without leaving my hair dry. Now that my hair is longer and I wear more twists, twist-outs, coils and puffs, I don’t have to wash my hair every day. So, I no longer only co-wash, I actually use shampoo about once a week.
The key is knowing your hair! Many naturals swear by “TheCurly Girl” method invented by Lorraine Massey. With this method shampoo is never used on the hair. They wash only with conditioner and if they need to clarify their hair, they use something natural, like apple cider vinegar. Personally, I could not do this because products cause build-up in my hair and then I am not able to do anything with it, but that may be what you need to stop the dryness.
If you choose to stick with using shampoo, look for a sulfate-free shampoo. In some cases sulfates are known to dry out the hair and scalp, so if you look for shampoos without sulfates or ones that are labeled ‘moisturizing’, you smaller chance of drying out your hair. Also, when you wash, follow with a conditioner (regular, leave-in, or deep conditioner). Which leads to my next point…..
3.) Conditioning
To me, conditioning is the most important part of having moisturized hair! Like I said earlier, I wash my hair about 1x a week and each time after I do, I make sure that I deep condition. Whether I sit around for 30 minutes with a shower cap on, use my HairTherapy Wrap, or keep it on overnight, I make sure that I deep condition each time I wash, especially if I clarify my hair or do a protein treatment. I love the way that my hair feels, it is usually really soft and easy to comb through or style. In choosing a dc, you want to make sure that it is moisturizing, contains hydrating ingredients and/or humectants depending on the season.
In some situations, too much conditioning can hurt your strands as well! If you hair becomes really limp, and weighed down…you may have over-moisturized, so listen to your hair! Some deep conditioners contain protein and it works for some people and not for others. For more information about protein and protein sensitivity visit blackhairinformation.com, here. She has a great article about protein.
Having a great leave-in conditioner also helps to keep you hair moisturized while it is styled. There are many kinds of leave-ins, it is basically what you like and what works for your hair. Many come in creams, lotions or liquids.
4. Sealing
The last step I do in moisturizing is to seal in that moisture, from water or leave-in or moisturizer, using an oil. There are many different oils to seal with depending on the thickness and texture of your hair. Some of the ones you may have heard of before are olive oil (shown above), grapeseed oil (great for heat styling or if you will be out in the sun), coconut oil, argan oil, or shea or mango butter.
So, I hope that this helps you ladies out and possibly you learned something that will help you to overcome dryness and count it as another problem solved in your natural hair journey!
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Straight hair for Christmas
Since I am off work for Christmas break, I decided to straighten my hair and clip my ends.
That was the result! It has really grown since I straightened in September:
I also wanted it to look nice and curly, so I experimented with pin curls. I really liked the results:
Overall, I liked wearing my hair straight for a second, but I'm back to curls ( overnight dc'ing as we speak)!
SMOOCHES!!!
SMOOCHES!!!
Labels:
hair care,
hairstyles
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Styles with straight hair
Here are some of the styles I did when my hair was straightened:
It was cool while it lasted, but......I was so ready to have my curls back!!
Smooches
Labels:
hair care,
hairstyles
Friday, September 23, 2011
BuSy bUsY MEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!
My goodness, this month is almost gone and I have yet to post any posts of the styles I did when my hair was straight or update my regimen for the upcoming winter months (since I have a lot more that a TWA).
Keep me in your prayers and maybe this crazy life of mine will slow down!
Keep me in your prayers and maybe this crazy life of mine will slow down!
Labels:
hair care
Saturday, September 10, 2011
Straight hair
I straightened my hair today, so I could clip my ends and I must say that I like the curls so much better!!! My hair has grown a lot in 15 months considering I bc'd with less than an inch of hair!

I also could not do this often: it was hot, and a seriously tedious process! I do not have that kind of time anymore!!
Well, I'm out!
*fingers crossed for no heat damage!!
-Smooches
I also could not do this often: it was hot, and a seriously tedious process! I do not have that kind of time anymore!!
Well, I'm out!
*fingers crossed for no heat damage!!
-Smooches
Labels:
hair care,
hairstyles
Monday, June 20, 2011
Tips for Natural Hair Care in the Summer - Part One
I love this youtuber, CharyJay, and her videos are so well put together, researched and helpful!!! Enjoy
Products I Use...but not all at once!
Ok, so prepare yourself, this will be a loooonnnnng post.
I decided to post the products I use because people are always asking me, "What do you use on your hair?" I honestly have to think about the things that I used that day or to achieve that particular style! So, I have listed the products that work for ME, everything does not work for everyone!
I decided to post the products I use because people are always asking me, "What do you use on your hair?" I honestly have to think about the things that I used that day or to achieve that particular style! So, I have listed the products that work for ME, everything does not work for everyone!
Shampoo:
Taliah Waajid Total Body Black Earth Shampoo
SheaMoisture Organic Raw Shea Butter Moisture Retention Shampoo
VO5 Herbal Escapes Clarifying Shampoo Kiwi Lime Squeeze (once/month)
Co-Wash Conditioners:
Suave Naturals Tropical Coconut Conditioner
Herbal Essences Hello Hydration Conditioner
Conditioners:
Taliah Waajid Enhancing Herbal Conditioner
SheaMoisture Organic Raw Shea Butter Restorative Conditioner
Uncle Funky's Daughter Richee Rich Condtioner
Detanglers:
Taliah Waajid The Great Detangler
Deep Conditioners:
SheaMoisture Organic Raw Shea Butter Deep Treatment Masque
Bee Mine Bee.U.Ti.Ful Moisturizing Deep Conditioner
Giovanni Smooth As Silk Conditioner
Sof n Free Gro Healthy Milk Protein and Olive Oil Deep Conditioning Treatment
Leave-in Condtioners:
Giovanni Direct Leave in Conditioner
Protein Treatment:
Govanni Nutrafix Hair Reconstructor
Moisturizers (and if I use on wet/dry hair):
Taliah Waajid Protective Mist Bodifier (dry)
Oyin Handmade Hair Dew (either)*
Oyin Handmade Juices and Berries (dry)*
Lily of the Desert Aloe Vera Juice (either)
Shea Moisture Curl Enhancing Smoothie (either)
Bee Mine Luscious Balanced Moisturizing Coconut Cream (dry/twists)
Stylers:
Taliah Waajid Curly Curl Cream (twists/braids)
Uncle Funky's Daughter Extra Butter (twists/braids)
Uncle Funky's Daughter Curly Magic (wash n go)
Oyin Handmade Burnt Sugar Pomade (dry braids/twists)*
Koils by Nature Nourishing Hair and Body Butter (twists/braids)*
Pooka Pure and Simple Shea and Olive Hair Butter
Sealants and Oils:
Coconut Oil
Extra Virgin Olive Oil (EVOO)
Castor Oil
Jamacan Black Castor Oil (thin edges)
Tea Tree Oil (itchy scalp)
Grapeseed Oil (heat protectant)
Gels:
All of these prducts were purchased in stores except those marked with an * and they have to be ordered online.
For a one stop shop, please visit Beauty For U, it is a black-owned beauty supply in Arlington and Grand Prairie. All of the products I have bought (except SheaMoisture and Giovanni) were purchased at their store. They don't just sell natural products, but also weave, wigs and anything else that you would get from a BSS. Please show our people some love instead of helping the Asian population capitalize on OUR hair!!!
Beauty For U
5145 Lake Ridge Pkwy
Grand Prairie TX 75052
972-606-2669
2400 SE Green Oaks Blvd STE. A
Arlington TX 76018
Love ya ladies!!!

Eco Styler Blue Gel (light hold)
Eco Styler Argan Oil Gel (strong hold)
For a one stop shop, please visit Beauty For U, it is a black-owned beauty supply in Arlington and Grand Prairie. All of the products I have bought (except SheaMoisture and Giovanni) were purchased at their store. They don't just sell natural products, but also weave, wigs and anything else that you would get from a BSS. Please show our people some love instead of helping the Asian population capitalize on OUR hair!!!
Beauty For U
5145 Lake Ridge Pkwy
Grand Prairie TX 75052
972-606-2669
2400 SE Green Oaks Blvd STE. A
Arlington TX 76018
Love ya ladies!!!
Labels:
hair care,
product review
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
Don't get stuck in a hair rut!!!
Having been natural only 9 months and starting from close to a bald head, I know how frustrating your hair can become and how some days it doesn't even seem worth it, but HOLD ON sista!! I have tried to come up with some solutions to help you out of your HAIR RUT!
1. TRACK YOUR PROGRESS
Any time that you feel that this journey is in vain, look back at where you started and this should give you an ego boost.
2. SEARCH FOR STYLE IDEAS
When I get bored with what I can come up with myself, I always turn to my laptop or phone for inspiration. My fave is youtube. Search natural hair or TWA (teeny weeny afro) and there are millions of videos. You can even be specific and search "styling your TWA" or "twistout on short hair" and get great results. Also, set up a youtube login and subscribe to different vloggers channels. When you do this, you will get updates when they add new videos and that is always a highlight of my day.
Other places you can turn to are FOTKI, Facebook, tumblr and other natural hair communities that require you to register and become a member. My favorites are naturalsunshine.com and nappturality.com
3. MODIFY YOUR REGIMEN
If you feel that your hair is becoming dry,brittle or lackluster then it is definitely time to revamp your regimen. Try new products or try switching some out. I have so many products in my closet, that I can always use something new! Or use a product that you have been wanting to try and maybe this could be the product you were looking for!
I know sometimes it gets hard on this natural journey, but surround yourself with people who support your decision and those who have been where you are in your journey....a little encouragement never hurt anybody!!
Smooches
Labels:
hair care
Friday, February 11, 2011
Winterizing your hair
Another thing for winter is protective styling! This is a wonderful way to protect your ends (which are the most fragile part of your hair) protected from cold and windy weather.
Protective styling can be a range of hairstyles: twists, braids, sew-ins, wigs, or any style with extensions (kinky twists, micros, Nubian twists). These styles protect your ends which can prevent breakage and help to retain length.
Make sure that with any of these styles you keep your scalp clean. There are a number of things you can do. I prefer to mix shampoo or conditioner with water in an applicator bottle and squeeze on the scalp. You just gently rub it in and rinse out. HTH
Smooches
Labels:
hair care
Winterizing your hair
So, even though I live in Texas, it is wintertime. I thought that I would tell what I do to protect my hair from cold weather and harsh winds.
1st things first....MOISTURIZE, MOISTURIZE, MOISTURIZE!! I cannot express how important it is to keep your hair moisturized when the air is so dry outside. Right now I wash my hair once a week with SheaMoisure Moisture Retention shampoo and deep condition with their deep treatment mask. Both work wonders for me!
Smooches!
Labels:
hair care
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)














